A social gathering for persons of the pervy persuasion. It usually takes place at a coffee shop or restaurant, on rare occasions at a pub or bar-and-grill type place. Munches are solely for the purposes of socializing, discussing, support, etc. It is considered extremely bad form to attempt to “pick someone up” at one, and since the occasions are for informal socializing and the venues are vanilla, it is a pretty good idea to come in street clothes rather than fetishwear.