There are many ways to bootblack. You can do it privately one-to-one, in a bar, at an event, as a service, There is also erotic bootblacking. This is bootblacking done in and as a scene. I promised in my last post about bootblacking that I would cover erotic bootblacking. I am here to deliver on my promise.
As always we must define our terms. For some bootblacks, any blacking session is erotic. For some, there are technical bootblacking and erotic bootblacking with clear lines between them (I fall into this group). For our purposes, however, we are talking about a bootblacking session that specifically has sexual intent, overtones, or elements.
I’m never one to tell people what to do and what not to do, but my advice is to never try to bootblack erotically until you have the basics down. This post will assume that you do, and I won’t be going over any of the technicalities of bootblacking (how to apply wax, what kinds to use, etc).
Erotic bootblacking can be done in that bar, in a dungeon or in a private space. Before beginning, make sure you know what the rules are. If you are in a bar, it’s likely that there is a rule that genitals and breasts cannot be exposed. Dungeons and private space usually have different rules.
How do you start an erotic bootblacking session? As we always start with scenes, with negotiation. First, do not go to a BootBlack’s chair, ask for a shine, and then ask them to do a scene. You need to start that conversation before you sit in the chair. What can you touch with, what can be touched on your partner (the person in the chair). What’s off limits, and if you’re ever unsure, asking “Is it alright if I do/ touch (insert body part here)/ use this” Communication is key, always. (I know I’ve said it many times, but really, it always bears repeating).
Next, decide what you’re bootblacking and with what. Here is what I mean – are you going to wash the boot with something other than your hands? Are you going to apply conditioner to pants with something other than your hands? You get the idea. Here are some scene suggestions to give you more of an idea;
Wash a jacket with the person laying face down without clothes on. Rub your hands into the soap suds and move them all over the person. Slow and sensual. When it comes time to rinse, pouring a pitcher of water over them isn’t out of the question BUT realize that for the next part you’ll need to move them to a dry place to continue the scene. Also works with leather pants.
Condition with boobs or thighs. I have many cans/ containers of conditioner which means I can sometimes afford to waste a little. For this, I like to put a lot on my upper inner thigh, sit facing the person, and condition their pants by moving your thighs over the garment. You aren’t going to be able to do the whole piece like this, but it certainly gets things going.
Condition a boot the same way, except put the conditioner in between your boobs (if you have them) and let the person move their boot into the conditioner to get it worked in.
Lick. Anything. But not polish, because…no. But Huberd’s is perfectly safe to lick. And use as lube.
Get messy. Polish is messy, And while you are polishing a boot, feel free to get that polish on your partner, write things on their body (NOT ON THEIR CLOTHES, LEATHER OR NOT), wash it off, repeat.
Use impact instruments. This is one of those times when the person in the chair can be the top or the bottom, or maybe you are in a full switchy scene. Impact instruments can reach from the chair. Ask me how I know.
Fucking a boot – it can be done, seen it many times. Use condoms. Also, it’s hot.
Impact with a boot – this requires a little knowledge, so make sure you know what you’re doing, because boots DO leave bruises
This is bootblacking as a scene, treat it as such. Everything involved can be sexual.
Boot worship is not necessarily provided, so please negotiate that beforehand.
In essence, erotic bootblacking is a sexual scene whether pentration happens or not. Be prepared to get messy. And turned on.
And no matter what TIP YOUR BOOTBLACK.
Before I leave this post, here are some basic rules when interacting with a bootblack;
1. Don’t sit in the chair without asking. They may be taking a break, waiting on someone, or going off duty.
Don’t interrupt a bootblack and their customer. If you MUST get their attention, tap their shoulder or slip a note.
2. Don’t touch a bootblack’s kit without permission.
4. Tip your bootblack. We pay a lot of money to make sure we have the supplies on hand for you, plus our skill and time. $15 is a minimum. And boots are always $20. If you can’t pay and need service, talk to the bootblack before they get in the stand – a trade or donation can usually be worked out. But don’t be offended if they decline.
5. A bootblack may be a submissive, but not always. And they aren’t YOUR submissive. Don’t try to top in any way in the stand without negotiation.
6. Have fun!
Until next time, keep talking the taboos!