Dammit…now I have to talk about R. Kelly

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There are some people who want to equate R. Kelly with a certain kind of kink. Let's shut that down.

In Defense of FetLife

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FetLife is a place for kinksters to socialize and fantasize, our own corner of the internet. But that doesn't stop people from misusing it, and that's not FetLife's fault.

Test Those Toys!

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No two toys will feel the same or act the same, that's why we encourage to have a toy test whenever possible. Here's an example why.

5 Myths About…Needle Play

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Needle play makes endorphins and we love endorphins! Don't love needles? Let me change your mind. Here are 5 myths about Needle Play.

Con Drop – Recovering After A Kinky Convention

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Kinky events are jam packed with sexy fun times, but there can also be a downside - the after - the dreaded con drop. Here's some tips to help if you experience it.

Kinky Event Planning

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Deciding to go to a kinky event/ conference can be exhilarating and overwhelming.Here's a handy breakdown what you need to do.

Dungeon Basics: Cages

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Cages and their use are emblematic of how a piece of kink equipment can seem easy to use, when in actuality it requires a respectable degree of scene awareness. Here’s what you need to know about using cages for BDSM play.

Exercise Your Right to Vote (for us)

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A big election is coming! (No, not THAT one.)

5 Myths About…Sluts

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Sexually liberated women may call themselves sluts, but you don't get to. That and four other myths in this post.

Woodhull; The Black Pomegranate at #sfs16

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We were able to attend Woodhull's Sexual Freedom Summit this year, and we had a great time. Here is our experience.

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5 Ways to Stay Kinky During a Quarantine

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We all may be getting lots of quality time at home, but what about quality kink time? Here's how to stay kinky during the quarantine.

Valentine’s Kinky Shopping

Woman with whip

Does Experience Count?

Endorphins

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