5 Ways to Stay Kinky During a Quarantine

I know the quarantine and staying indoors is making us all…close. Even NYC has even issued some ways to have sex during the Corona Virus. These tips work for long-distance relationships as well.

But here at the Black Pomegranate, we like to ‘Keep it Kinky’ How do you do that when you can’t get to the dungeon, or your kids are ALWAYS in the house, or even that you aren’t quarantined with your kinky partner. Before you get started, make sure you are both on the same page with keeping your kinky side alive.  You can use lists like this or this to see where you all stand or see where you can expand your boundaries.  

Bluetooth Toys

Having another partner controlling your pleasure is hot. There are a few on the market, but this one caught my eye. I don’t need quarantine to buy something like this, but it gives me a reason to spend money.

Make a sexy wishlist

Scour the internet for the items you’d like to try. Only two rules for this activity – cost is no object and no dildos/ vibrators. See how wild or tame your partner is as you see what gets added to the list.

Have a dedicated scene

Pick a dedicated time, in place and time where you won’t be disturbed. And have a scene in text or zoom. You don’t even have to pretend. I can get my subs to get their own candles for a wax scene, and have them use a paddle on themselves. Of course, you can’t do everything when you’re apart, but there are quite a few things you CAN do. And the anticipation of a scene itself is hot. 

Erotic book club

Being in quarantine gives us lots of time to read. Find a great BDSM erotica and read it together. No, not that one. Pick another great one. Or even this one. Discuss it in detail, get into detail. 

Take a kink class

Sometimes when you are doing regular life you can’t make it to that Wednesday class. Perhaps at the last kink event, the time in the dungeon meant you were too tired to make the great classes. Take some online! Some are free, and some aren’t – but all are great. I’m even checking out some I’ve had my eye on for a while. Take the class together. Enjoy the fruits of your knowledge together. 

(You might even see an upcoming online class from us soon.)

Bonus Tip

Mutual masturbation – Hot phone sex without some touching of the good bits? No, thank you. If I’m feeling the mood, then I want to FEEL it. If I’m domming someone, they can certainly touch themselves as well. But do I let them finish? Hmmmmmm

Stay safe and keep it kinky

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