5 Awesome BDSM Kits for Absolute Beginners

Sex can be an integral part of every relationship and marriage out there. It doesn’t matter if people are straight, gay, or transgender; all of these individuals can want sex to connect with their lovers on a more meaningful level. However, some of them have a different vision of sex and want to experiment in the bedroom. The BDSM lifestyle provides them with an opportunity to explore their sexuality in a non-traditional manner using various accessories and toys. And while the first logical step would be to look for interested BDSM partners, it doesn’t hurt to know which BDSM kits are good for beginners. With that in mind, we’ve prepared the list below.

Soft and Padded Handcuffs

If you are a beginner when it comes to BDSM, the best option for you is to start with soft and padded bondages. You and your partner are probably not used to hard materials, so in order to protect your skin from irritation and potential injuries, you should use padded handcuffs, collars, and other restraints. Then, after you acquire some BDSM experience and skills, you can try using leather and other harsh materials.

Easy-Escape Restraints

Considering the fact that you and your partner are ‘beginner BDSM’ in the world of bondage sex, there is a chance you might panic if something goes wrong. Therefore, if you want to play with the full-body restraints, you should definitely use easy-escape bondages. These restraints are not made of leather and metal buckles. They are made from padded materials and they have Velcro strips. This is a much safer option because some buckles take too long to untie. So, if something bad happens, you should be able to untie your partner right away. That’s why all beginners and inexperienced BDSM enthusiasts should use easy-escape Velcro restraints.

Under-the-Bed Restraints

When it comes to restraints, a lot of them might seem appealing and fun to you and your lover. Most beginners want to try out the metal ones that are hanging from the ceiling, but those are not very safe when you’re a newbie. Using under-the-bed restraints, on the other hand, is an exciting and safe alternative. These restraints are attached underneath your mattress with the hand and ankle cuffs located at the four corners of the bed. This way, you can easily tie your lover and do with them what you want without risking any injuries.

Padded Paddles

Experimenting with different sensations, like pain, for example, is very popular in the world of BDSM. So, if you decide to try this, you can use many different kinds of paddles and riding crops. However, considering that hitting someone can cause injuries, we suggest you use paddles made of soft and padded materials. This way, you’ll be able to satisfy your kinky side without hurting your lover. If you do decide to up your impact play, we have a post all about it.

Soft Satin Blindfolds

What would Beginner BDSM be without blindfolds? Being blindfolded during sex is also something most people consider hot. A lot of them say that sex feels so much better when you can’t see what your partner is doing to you. Therefore, if you want to see (pun intended) what that feels like, you should probably buy yourself a soft satin blindfold. Unlike other cheap blindfolds that are made of harsh materials, satin blindfolds are pleasant and they won’t irritate your skin. Also, you can easily control how tight these blindfolds are tied. BDSM experts say that using blindfolds during sex makes everything so much better, so you and your partner should definitely try that.

Until next time!

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