Electrical Play – A Shocking Good Time

Electrical play? Is it for you? Will it hurt? How do you do it? Why do I have so many questions? Come inside and learn all about it!

Dungeon Basics: What to wear

Unsure what to wear to a playspace or dungeon? Is it fetish clothing or casual? Let's us give you some tips of what to wear.

Books for BDSM

We surveyed people in all kinds of places, and put together a list of books that will help you on your BDSM journey.

Playbag – Sensation Play

Sensation play is about the various way you can feel in scene. Let's talk about how to stock up for this type of scene
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5 Myths About…Mummification

Wrap it up tight, today we are talking about mummification.

A Spanking Good Time

Spanking is BDSM 101. Here are some things to know before you turn someone over your knee.
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A Primer on Cock and Ball Torture

The word torture is in the title, but pleasure is what it yields for many.

Woodhull 2017 Presentation

Our presentation at Woodhull 2017 Presentation.

Dammit…now I have to talk about R. Kelly

There are some people who want to equate R. Kelly with a certain kind of kink. Let's shut that down.

In Defense of FetLife

FetLife is a place for kinksters to socialize and fantasize, our own corner of the internet. But that doesn't stop people from misusing it, and that's not FetLife's fault.